About Us


Menfriends is Christchurch’s premium venue for guys and one of the best in NZ.  Seriously, it is.  Come check it out for yourself, you won’t regret it.  You need to be 18 years or older and into other guys, all the time or part of the time to enjoy what we have on offer.  Menfriends is friendly and chilled, a place for time out and private spaces for fun.  Here you can relax and be yourself.  At Menfriends, ethnicity culture and age do not define or limit you.  You only pay once and can stay as long as you like.  Plus, with a Pass Out, you can return for free within the same session if you need to go do something.

Altsexcafe is a shop sited in the entrance but is actually separate to the club.  It sells adult products and accessories and is open to anyone at all.  Everyone is welcome but sorry, we don’t sell coffee!

Our Location

427 Tuam Street Christchurch
A 15 minute walk from the CBD
A $10 cab fare from CBD
Bus #80 Parklands

Contact Us

+64 3 381 1818

Our Hours 7 days

Sunday to Thursday 11 am – 1am
Friday & Saturday 11 am – 3am
Public Holidays Usual Hours
Public Holiday Eve Until 11:30pm
Christmas Day Closed

Our Prices

Entry $27
18 – 23’s $25
Gold Card $25
On Your Birthday Free
Ten Trip Discount Free

Some of our facilities

+ spa pool + sauna room + steam room + hot showers + 2 x coffee tea hot chocolate stations + tuck shop selling hot food, cold drinks, munchies + 80 personal lockers with hairdryer + free jandals/thongs + free extra towel + PCD charging station + 2 x high speed internet PC’s  + WIFI + outdoor heated garden + dungeon sling + st andrews cross with wrist/ankle restraints  + dungeon + two adult movie lounges + sling with observation window + unlimited condoms and lubricant + stocks + private shower with douche facility for hire + services noticeboard + total blackout orgy room + sucktorium + maze + amazing sound + fully air conditioned + mirror room + ropes + wall mounted blindfold with cuffs + adult store on site + coffee tea hot chocolate & daily newspaper + pass-outs + pool table + multiple R18 movie screens + chilled filtered water fountain + weekly sexual health clinic + coffee lounge w/ satellite TV +



Our Access Policy

We would like to welcome everyone into our club but we accept that we can’t.  For this reason we have an Access Policy, kinda like the T&C’s.

Menfriends is a Private Club; you enter at your own risk and we reserve the right of entry at all times.  The purpose of our Access Policy is to ensure the welfare safety and comfort of every client, our venue staff and ensure the operability of the venue.  We are assisted in this aim by CCTV in public areas only.

Menfriends was created for and admits only those with male genetalia over 18 years of age who are referred to as guys, men or clients in this website.

Guys with a physical disability, please note that we have an Accessible Parking space in front of our building.  Wheelchair access is provided to the entire ground floor including the spa sauna steam facilities and adult movie lounge.  There is no wheelchair access to the mezzanine level where private spaces are located.

If you require support or are unsighted, one suitably qualified male support person must accompany you.  Where lifting is required (eg spa pool, stairs) two suitably qualified Support Persons are required.  Suitably required support persons will be guys who are comfortable with the nature of the venue, be trained and qualified for their role.  Support persons are admitted free of charge.

Those with hearing or visual impairment that may impact on their use of the venue are encouraged to advise venue Staff of any assistance that might be helpful upon arrival.

Those with social, behavioural or intellectual disability and those who appear to be under the influence of alcohol or narcotics will not be admitted or permitted to remain on the premises.

Determination of disability and the impact it might have on the client, the venue and other clients is the sole judgement of Venue Staff at all times.