About Us


Menfriends is a Private Club that caters to guys into guys, all the time or part of the time. You must be 18 years old and over but you do not need to be a member of the Club to enjoy what’s on offer.  Menfriends is a place for time out and for fun and the chance to meet other guys, Mr Right or Mr Right Now.  It is a non-judgmental space where you can be yourself no matter your race religion culture age or shape.

What happens in Menfriends stays in Menfriends.

Altsexcafe is a shop sited at the entrance to the club that sells adult products and accessories that cater to anyone at all.  Everyone is welcome but sorry, we don’t sell coffee!

Our Location

We are a 15 minute walk from the CBD

427 Tuam Street Christchurch

Contact Us

+64 3 381 1818

Our Hours

We are Open 7 days

Sunday to Thursday 11 am – 3am
Friday & Saturday 11 am – 3am
Public Holidays Usual Hours
Public Holiday Eve Until 11:30pm
Christmas Day Closed


Our Prices

Entry $27
18 – 23’s $25
Gold Card $25
On Your Birthday Free
Ten Trip Discount  Free



Our Facilities include

+ spa pool + sauna room + steam room + hot showers + 2 x free coffee tea hot chocolate stations + tuck shop selling hot food, cold drinks, munchies + 80 personal lockers with hairdryer + free jandals/thongs + free extra towel + mobile phone charging station + 2 x high speed PC internet café + free WIFI + outdoor heated garden + dungeon sling + st andrews cross with wrist/ankle restraints  + dungeon + two adult movie lounges + sling with observation window + unlimited condoms and lubricant + stocks + private shower with douche hire + services noticeboard + total blackout orgy room + sucktorium + maze + amazing sound + fully air conditioned + mirror room + ropes + wall mounted blindfold with cuffs + R18 store on site +  coffee lounge & daily newspaper + free pass-outs + pool table +



Our Access Policy

We would like to welcome everyone into our club but we recognise that we can’t.  Menfriends is a Private Club so you enter at your own risk and we reserve the right of entry at all times.  The purpose of our Access Policy is to ensure the welfare safety and comfort of clients and venue staff and to ensure the operability of the venue.

Who we cater to:

People with male genetalia over 18 years of age. Those with physical disability please note: We have a single dedicated Accessible Parking space on site in front of our building.  Wheelchair access is provided to the entire ground floor including the spa sauna and steam facilities and adult movie lounge.

There is no wheelchair access to the mezzanine level where private spaces are located.

If you require support or are unsighted, one suitably qualified male support person must accompany you.  Where lifting may be required (eg spa pool) two suitably qualified male Support Persons are required.  Suitably required support persons will be comfortable with the overtly sexual nature of the venue, be trained and qualified for their role.  Support persons are admitted free of charge.

Those with hearing or visual impairment that may impact on their use of the venue are encouraged to advise venue Staff of any assistance that might be helpful upon arrival.

Those with social behavioural or intellectual disability will not be admitted or asked to leave.

Determination of disability and the impact it might have on the client, the venue and other clients is the sole judgement of Venue Staff in every instance.