Menfriends is Christchurch’s premium venue for guys and one of the best in NZ.  Seriously, it is.  Come check it out for yourself, you won’t regret it.  You need to be 18 years or older and into other guys all the time or part of the time to enjoy the facilities we have on offer.

Menfriends is friendly and chilled, a place for time out and private spaces for fun.  It's a place where you can relax and be yourself.  Your ethnicity culture and age neither define or limit you at Menfriends.  You only pay once and can stay as long as you like.  Plus, with a Pass Out, you can return for free within the same session if you need to go do something. is our online and on-site adult supply store in the same building as Menfriends but is separate.  It is open to men and women from all walks of life.  Everyone is welcome but sorry, we don’t sell coffee!

Our facilities

+ Spa pool.
+ Sauna room.
+ Steam room.
+ Hot and cold showers.
+ 2 x coffee bar stations. filtered water fountain.
+ tuck shop selling hot food. cold drinks, munchies.
+ 72 personal lockers with hairdryer.
+ free jandals/thongs.
+ free extra towel.
+ phone charging station.
+ 2 x high speed internet PC’s  + WIFI.
+ outdoor heated garden. + dungeon sling.
+ st andrews cross with wrist/ankle restraints.
+ dungeon.
+ two adult movie lounges.
+ sling with observation window.

+ unlimited condoms and lubricant + stocks.
+ private shower with douche facility for hire.
+ services noticeboard.
+ total blackout orgy room.
+ sucktorium.
+ multiple play spaces, private and public.
+ fully air conditioned.
+ mirror room.
+ ropes + wall mounted blindfold with cuffs.
+ adult store on site.
+ daily newspaper.
+ pass-outs.
+ pool table.
+ multiple R18 movie screens.
+ weekly sexual health clinic.
+ coffee lounge w/ satellite TV.

Refresher towel on departure

Towels to fit all sizes

Our Customers feedback

A very pleasant Saturday afternoon with 2 (separate) gentlemen. I have a soft spot for the mature so I was in my element. Great facilities. Jacuzzi (Spa). Steam Room. Sauna. Private Rooms. Free beverages. Will visit again. Thanks to the 2 staff members.
Alaric S.
Convenient as its nearbye. The staff are all friendly and helpful.
Andrew G.
I lucked in on Sleaze Party when I was visiting Chch. OMG OMG OMG! I had an amazing time, so many men lol I wish I'd had more time to get to know them all hehe.
Congratulations on a world class venue. The fit-out, from the outside to walk in and to the lockers is really something. A very impressive locker area with glass wall, wets look dynamic, and upstairs is cruisy and interesting with an amazing bondage area! This venue could be anywhere and do well. Best of all your Staff are brilliant.
Ty Dovans
357 Sydney City Steam - Owner
Estuve de vacaciones en Christchurch y pase con la idea de relajarme un rato... Me sorprendió el lugar, el servicio, y poder hablar Español como si estuviese en casa!
Love it clean discreet.
Graham J.

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Our Access Policy

We would like to welcome everyone but we accept that we can’t. For this reason we have an Access Policy, our T&C’s for access and use of the facility. Menfriends is a Private Club; despite extensive measures to ensure your safety and security you enter at your own risk. We reserve the right of entry at all times. The purpose of our Access Policy is to ensure the health welfare safety and comfort of every client, venue Staff and to ensure the operability of the venue. We are assisted in this by CCTV in public areas only. Menfriends was created for and admits those with male genetalia over 18 years of age seeking interaction with others with male genitalia who we refer to as guys, men or clients. We do not admit anyone else. Guys with a physical disability please note that due to its purpose nature and layout, the venue is not suitable for those with severe physical disabilities. We have found that guys with a moderate physical disability find the environment challenging. We have an Accessible Parking space in front of our building. Wheelchair access is provided to the entire ground floor including the spa sauna steam zone and adult movie lounge. There is no wheelchair access to the mezzanine level where private play spaces are located, the sauna room or the steam room. If you require support or are unsighted, one suitably qualified male support person must accompany you. Where lifting is required (eg spa pool, stairs) two suitably qualified Support Persons are required. Support persons will be guys who are trained and qualified for their role. Support persons are admitted free of charge. Venue Staff cannot assist in a support person role. Those with hearing or visual impairment that may impact on their use of the venue are encouraged to advise venue Staff of any assistance that might be helpful upon arrival. Those with a social, behavioural or intellectual disability and those who appear to be under the influence of alcohol or narcotics will not be admitted or permitted to remain on the premises. Determination of disability and the impact it might have on the client, the venue and other clients is the sole judgement of Venue Staff on duty at all times.