Menfriends is Christchurch’s premium venue for guys and one of the best in NZ. Seriously, it is.  Come check it out for yourself, you won’t regret it.  You need to be 18 years or older and into other guys, all the time or time to time to enjoy our facilities. 

Menfriends is friendly and chilled, a place for time out and private spaces for fun.  It’s a place where you can relax and be yourself.  Your ethnicity culture and age neither define nor limit you at Menfriends.  You only pay once and can stay as long as you like.  With a Pass Out, you can return for free within the same session if you need to go do something and come back. is our online and on-site adult supply store. It shares the entrance to  Menfriends and welcomes men and women from all walks of life. 

Our facilities

+ Spa pool.
+ Sauna room.
+ Steam room.
+ Hot and cold showers.
+ 2 x coffee bar stations.
+ filtered chilled water fountain.
+ Tuck Shop with hot food, cold drinks, munchies.
+ 72 personal lockers.
+ hairdryer.
+ free jandals/thongs.
+ free extra towel.
+ phone charging station.
+ 2 x high speed internet PC’s.
+ outdoor heated garden.
+ sling room.
+ St Andrews Cross with wrist/ankle restraints.
+ dungeon with sling, stocks.
+ two adult movie lounges.
+ sling with observation window.
+ glory holes.
+ covered cycle parking.

+ unlimited condoms and lubricant.
+ luxury private shower with douche facility.
+ services noticeboard.
+ total blackout play room.
+ sucktorium.
+ multiple play spaces, private and public.
+ two floors air conditioned.
+ mirror room.
+ ropes for bondage. 
+ wall mounted blindfold with cuffs.
+ adult store on site and online.
+ daily newspaper.
+ free pass-outs/rainchecks.
+ free pool table.
+ multiple adult movie screens.
+ weekly Sexual Health clinic.
+ coffee lounge w/satellite TV.
+ free WIFI
+ free coffee, tea, hot-chocolate.
+ outdoor heated garden
+ onsite parking, 2 + 1 accessible parking space

Refresher towel on departure

Towels to fit all sizes

Our Customers feedback

A very pleasant Saturday afternoon with 2 (separate) gentlemen. I have a soft spot for the mature so I was in my element. Great facilities. Jacuzzi (Spa). Steam Room. Sauna. Private Rooms. Free beverages. Will visit again. Thanks to the 2 staff members.
Alaric S.
Hi team. I've been attending mf for six months now. I just like to say a big thank you to all the staff for their help and for making me feel welcome. The complex is great, I enjoy the spa an coffee an playtime. Thanks for being there.
Brandon P.
Congratulations on a world class venue. The fit-out, from the outside to walk in and to the lockers is really something. A very impressive locker area with glass wall, wets look dynamic, and upstairs is cruisy and interesting with an amazing bondage area! This venue could be anywhere and do well. Best of all your Staff are brilliant.
Ty Dovans
357 Sydney City Steam - Owner
Class act! Really fine facility, whether for relaxing or playing. Clean, nicely kept, well run, friendly staff.
Jim Hirschinger
Estuve de vacaciones en Christchurch y pase con la idea de relajarme un rato... Me sorprendió el lugar, el servicio, y poder hablar Español como si estuviese en casa!

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Our Access Policy

Menfriends operates as a Private Club for men. This does not grant or imply right of entry to the Club; we reserve the right of admission at all times. Eligibility for admission is determined at the point of entry solely by the Staff on duty at that time. Upon payment, everyone enters at their own risk and as our guest. Rules, dress codes and venue facilities are applied and available equally to all clients. Although Accessible, our facility is not suitable for those with disabilities that require support. Those with social, behavioural and intellectual disabilities, those who appear to be under the influence of alcohol or narcotics and those with a shit attitude will not be admitted or permitted to remain on the premises.

Menfriends is a popular venue; this policy helps ensure that.