Menfriends is Christchurch’s premium venue for guys and one of the best in NZ. Seriously, it is.  Come check it out for yourself, you won’t regret it.  You need to be 18 years or older and into other guys all the time or part of the time to enjoy the facilities we have on offer.

Menfriends is friendly and chilled, a place for time out and private spaces for fun.  It’s a place where you can relax and be yourself.  Your ethnicity culture and age neither define or limit you at Menfriends.  You only pay once and can stay as long as you like.  Plus, with a Pass Out, you can return for free within the same session if you need to go do something. is our online and on-site adult supply store sharing the entrance to  Menfriends.  It is open to men and women from all walks of life.  Everyone is welcome but sorry, we don’t sell coffee!

Our facilities

+ Spa pool.
+ Sauna room.
+ Steam room.
+ Hot and cold showers.
+ 2 x coffee bar stations.
+ filtered chilled water fountain.
+ Tuck Shop with hot food, cold drinks, munchies.
+ 72 personal lockers.
+ hairdryer.
+ free jandals/thongs.
+ free extra towel.
+ phone charging station.
+ 2 x high speed internet PC’s.
+ outdoor heated garden.
+ sling room.
+ St Andrews Cross with wrist/ankle restraints.
+ dungeon with sling, stocks.
+ two adult movie lounges.
+ sling with observation window.
+ glory holes.
+ covered cycle parking.

+ unlimited condoms and lubricant.
+ luxury private shower with douche facility.
+ services noticeboard.
+ total blackout play room.
+ sucktorium.
+ multiple play spaces, private and public.
+ two floors air conditioned.
+ mirror room.
+ ropes. 
+ wall mounted blindfold with cuffs.
+ adult store on site and online.
+ daily newspaper.
+ free pass-outs/rainchecks.
+ free pool table.
+ multiple adult movie screens.
+ weekly Sexual Health clinic.
+ coffee lounge w/satellite TV.
+ free WIFI
+ free coffee, tea, hot-chocolate.
+ outdoor heated garden
+ onsite parking, 1 accessible parking space

Refresher towel on departure

Towels to fit all sizes

Our Customers feedback

A very pleasant Saturday afternoon with 2 (separate) gentlemen. I have a soft spot for the mature so I was in my element. Great facilities. Jacuzzi (Spa). Steam Room. Sauna. Private Rooms. Free beverages. Will visit again. Thanks to the 2 staff members.
Alaric S.
Hi team. I've been attending mf for six months now. I just like to say a big thank you to all the staff for their help and for making me feel welcome. The complex is great, I enjoy the spa an coffee an playtime. Thanks for being there.
Brandon P.
I lucked in on Sleaze night..omg omg..speechless! Thanks, your venue made my trip to Christchurch worthwhile!
Congratulations on a world class venue. The fit-out, from the outside to walk in and to the lockers is really something. A very impressive locker area with glass wall, wets look dynamic, and upstairs is cruisy and interesting with an amazing bondage area! This venue could be anywhere and do well. Best of all your Staff are brilliant.
Ty Dovans
357 Sydney City Steam - Owner
Estuve de vacaciones en Christchurch y pase con la idea de relajarme un rato... Me sorprendió el lugar, el servicio, y poder hablar Español como si estuviese en casa!
Class act! Really fine facility, whether for relaxing or playing. Clean, nicely kept, well run, friendly staff.
Jim Hirschinger

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Our Access Policy

Menfriends operates as a Private Club for men which means we reserve the right of admission. Upon payment, everyone enters at their own risk as our guest. Rules, dress codes and venue facilities are applied and available equally to all clients.

Eligibility for admission is determined at the point of entry solely by the Staff on duty at that time. If we feel someone wont fit safely in the venue for any reason, admission will be denied.
Although Accessible, our facility is not suitable for those with disabilities that require support. Those with social, behavioural and intellectual disabilities, those who appear to be under the influence of alcohol or narcotics and those with a shit attitude will not be admitted or permitted to remain on the premises.

Menfriends is a popular venue; this policy helps ensure that.