MF is for guys into guys – there’s a big difference.  A lot more guys than you probably realise are what you might call ‘part-timers’.  They like to play with other guys from time to time, just not all the time.  Menfriends offers a place for down low hookups while the rest of the time these guys are on with women. 

It’s full of guys just like you actually, like the guy down the street and that hot guy in the team you played last week.

A good question but a lot of people do.  At Menfriends you pay for the use of the venue, nothing else.  Any person asking or offering payment for sex will be asked to leave.

It’s clean, it’s horny, it’s safe, it’s warm, it’s open all hours, it has useful free stuff, friendly staff who wont ask awkward questions and is much cheaper than a motel.  You will always ‘have a place’ at MF – for hook-ups or rentals.  Best of all it has private rooms with lockable doors and squab beds where you can get busy.

When you are in the mood and can afford it.  A visit to a place like Menfriends is always ‘take it as you find it’ in both numbers and types of guy.  Some visits you will be spectacularly lucky and it all works for you.  Other times it’ll take a little longer.  We have customers who swear they get more action when its quiet than when its busy.  If you want a guarantee, hire a rent-boy.  We do not respond to questions like ‘are you busy’ ‘how many are in there atm’ ‘what’s it usually like on a Tuesday’? 

Yes, its as good as any other place to find a partner.  We have many couples in our present and past client list.  A guy who is open to a little more than sex will usually give you clues so listen carefully if you are too.  A lot of guys only want sex; that’s very normal so dont be that dickhead who insists on more than the other person is offering. 

Yes, you are very welcome. Some guys arrive dressed up and others dress up after they arrive.  You can hire our Luxury Bathroom if you are shy about getting changed publicly.  Cross dressing (XD) is for guys who love wearing clothing of the opposite sex.  At Menfriends that means female lingerie and or clothing.

Of course you can.  Not every girl wants to bang their boy with a strap on, and some guys just like the feel of a real cock doing its thing inside them.  A lot of girls are threatened at the thought their man might enjoy it ‘down there’.  A visit to Menfriends from time to time tends to sort such issues. 

Not everyone but most guys get over their nervousness very quickly.  Menfriends suits guys who are comfortable with themselves even though they might not be out.  Guys who like a little privacy and appreciate having the chance to meet other guys in a safe secure and very sexual space.

Hahaha… NO!  Any person found offering or asking for money will be asked to leave.  BUT..  you are very welcome to bring someone with you who is paying you for sex.   We will always be discreet and treat you both with the same respect that everyone receives.  If you have hired a rent boy – the same applies.   No judgements or awkward questions are asked – we only need a first name for our book and hope you have an amazing time!

That’s because most of our clients don’t park right in front of our building.  They should because as its under a security camera it’s a lot safer. Most of our clients park in the surrounding streets and walk the last 100m.

Yes, it does. As the busiest sex on site venue in NZ we can safely say it does. When it gets busy nobody knows but Special Sessions and Dress Coded sessions are always popular.

If you only want to meet 18 -23 yr olds, Menfriends probably will feel like its full of old guys to you becuase Menfriends is a venue for adults.  We get ALL ages over 18 at different times and we never know in advance who is going to be on site at any particular time.  As a hospitality venue our patterns are similar to any other hospitality venue.  Enquiries about client numbers client ages and best time to come will be ignored – sorry! 

Yes, trans guys are welcome.  Entry to the venue for everyone is a decision made at the venue by our Staff.  Being a venue for men, you must look like a guy and how Duty Staff see you determines admission.  They will, amongst other things, consider how comfortable they think you will be in the venue.  It’s their decision, it’s made at the time.  Sometimes it can help if your physical transformation is reasonably advanced,  

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