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Menfriends is the city’s premium venue for guys and one of the best in NZ. Seriously, it is!  You need to be 18 years or older and into other guys, all the time or time to time to best enjoy our facilities.

Menfriends is friendly and chilled, a place for time out with private spaces for fun if you meet someone you like and someone who likes you.  You can relax and be yourself.  Your ethnicity, culture and age neither define nor limit you at Menfriends.  You pay admission once and can stay as long as you like.  With a Pass Out, you can return free once within 5 hours of leaving.

Altsexcafe.com is our online and on-site adult supply store. It shares the entrance to Menfriends and welcomes people from all walks of life. 

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Our Facilities

  • Spa pool

  • Sauna room

  • Steam room

  • Showers

  • 2 x free coffee bar stations

  • Tuck Shop with hot food, cold drinks, munchies

  • Personal lockers

  • Sling room

  • Dungeon with sling, St Andrews Cross and Spanking Bench

  • Two adult movie lounges

  • Glory holes

  • Unlimited condoms and lubricant

  • Total blackout play room

  • Multiple play spaces, private and public

  • Two floors air conditioned

  • Mirror room

  • Adult store on site and online

  • Free pool table

  • Multiple adult movie screens

  • Weekly Sexual Health clinic

  • Outdoor heated garden

Come & Play!

427 Tuam Street, Phillipstown, Christchurch

15 min walk from the CBD and on the #80 Bus route

Our Hours

  • Open Every Day from 11am

  • Sunday - Thursday:  Close 1am

  • Friday - Saturday:  Close 3am

  • Public Holidays:  Open Usual Hours

  • Christmas Day:  Closed

What do our Customers think?

Great social atmosphere, and sauna and facilities are great, new ownership are doing great stuff refreshing things too!

Hayden

Source: Google Reviews

Visiting from Auckland, lots of walking room, high ceilings, friendly staff. The food & drinks list is large & reasonable! I wish there was a place like this in Auckland this seems to be above & beyond the Auckland Saunas. Would love the owner to expand to Auckland him & his team are doing a great job!

Brandon

Source: Google Reviews

Menfriends is a warm, welcoming place where you can truly relax and be yourself. The new owners are absolutely lovely and have put so much effort into making the space look amazing—and it really shows. The staff are just as wonderful: super friendly and genuinely welcoming. I highly recommend it, and I always make sure to visit whenever I’m back in New Zealand on holiday.

Cody

Source: Google Reviews

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Admission

Standard Admission

NZ Super Gold or Community Services Card

Under 23 years old (ID required)

Douche Facility

Additional Towel (one free with entry)

On Your Birthday (ID required)

Pass Out  (One return on same day)

Completed Blue Card

$ 35

$ 32

$ 23

$ 8

$ 5

Free

Free

Free

Saturday 'SleazeParty' Admission:

Standard Entry

NZ Super Gold or Community Services Card

Under 23 years old (ID required)

$ 40

$ 37

$ 28

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  • Loyalty Cards are not eligible for any other discount

  • Discounts do not apply on Public Holidays

  • One Discount per Admission

  • Last entry is 45 mins before closing

Access Policy

Menfriends is a Private Club for gay & bi men, trans men, and pre-op trans women. Some of our events welcome all genders and sexual orientations, and these will be specified. Gender or sexual orientation alone does not grant or imply right of entry to the Club. We reserve the right of admission at all times. Eligibility for admission is determined at the point of entry by the Staff member on duty at that time. You enter at your own risk as our Guest. Rules, dress codes and venue facilities are applied and available equally to all clients. Although Accessible, our facility is not suitable for those with disabilities that require support. Those with social, behavioural and intellectual disabilities, those who appear to be under the influence of alcohol or narcotics and those with a shit attitude will not be admitted or permitted to remain on the premises.

Menfriends is a popular venue; this policy helps ensure that.

Conditions of Entry

  • We are a private club and we reserve the right of admission at all times.

  • No food, drinks, alcohol or drugs to be brought into and consumed on this premises.

  • No hats, hoodies or sunglasses in the club.

  • All facilities operate until 45 mins before closing.

  • Dress code – we prefer guys not to be fully clothed as that can be off putting for others

About Us

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