Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, we do, and lube – both are free of charge.

Yes we do.

Other than for Special Sessions where the dress code is stated, the following Dress Code applies:

Towel Only or Towel and Top or Fully Clothed.

Menfriends is for guys into guys – we leave it there. Menfriends offers a place for down low hookups in an amazing space – that’s it.

It’s full of guys just like you, like the guy down the street and the guy next door.

A good question but a lot of people do. At Menfriends you pay for the use of the venue, nothing else. Any person asking or offering payment for sex will be asked to leave.

Why not. It’s clean, it’s horny, it’s safe, it’s warm, it’s open all hours, it has useful free stuff, friendly staff who wont ask awkward questions and is much cheaper than a motel. You will always ‘have a place’ at MF – for hook-ups or rentals. Best of all, it has private rooms with lockable doors and squab beds where you can get busy.

When you are in the mood and can afford it. A visit to a place like Menfriends is always ‘take it as you find it’ in both numbers and types of guy. Some visits you will be spectacularly lucky and it all works for you. Other times it’ll take a little longer. We have customers who swear they get more action when its quiet than when its busy.

We will not respond to questions like ‘are you busy’ ‘how many are in atm’ ‘what’s it usually like on a Tuesday’?

It’s as good a place as any other place to find a partner. We have many couples in our present and past client list. A guy who is open to a little more than sex will usually give you clues so listen carefully if you are too. Most guys only want sex, that’s very normal. Don't be that dickhead who insists on more than the other person is offering.

Yes! Some guys arrive dressed up and others dress up after they arrive. You can hire our Luxury Bathroom if you are shy about getting changed publicly. Cross dressing (XD) is for guys who enjoy wearing clothing/lingerie of the opposite sex. At Menfriends that means female lingerie and or clothing.

You can if you meet our criteria for entry. Not every girl wants to bang their boy with a strap-on and some guys have a hankering for a real cock and a real person. A visit to Menfriends from time to time sorts such issues safely and discreetly, how you define yourself doesn’t matter at Menfriends.

Not everyone but most guys get over their nervousness very quickly. Menfriends suits guys who are comfortable with themselves and wherever they are at. We suit guys who like a little privacy and appreciate having the chance to meet other guys in a safe secure and very sexual space.

Hahaha… no, you can’t. Anyone found offering or asking for money will be asked to leave. BUT.. You are very welcome to bring someone who is paying you or who you are paying. We will always be discreet and treat you both with the same respect that everyone receives. No judgements or awkward questions are asked – we only need a first name for our book and hope you have an amazing time!

That’s because most of our clients don’t park right in front of our building! They should, it’s covered by a security camera so it’s a lot safer but most of our clients park in the surrounding streets and walk the last 100m. We urge you not to leave valuables visible in your parked car.

Yes, it does. When it gets busy nobody knows but Special Sessions and Dress Coded sessions are always popular.

NO! If you only want to meet 18 – 23 yr old’s you are in the wrong place and yes, you probably will think everyone is old. Hire an escort if you want youth that will say yes. Menfriends is a venue for adults and most adults don’t feel someone over 23 is old. We get all ages at different times and we never know who is going to be on site at any particular time. We think we get a good cross-section of ages.

Yes, you are! Trans men and pre-op trans women are welcome at Menfriends. We count trans people among our regular customers but this alone does not entitle you to entry any more than being gay or bi does. Our Reception Staff consider how comfortable they think someone will be in the venue. It’s their decision alone and it’s made at the time. We find it can help comfort levels generally if your transformation is reasonably advanced but it’s up to you.

Menfriends is a private club for gay, bi and trans people. If you are one of these people, or think you might be, you are eligible for admission.

Not usually, but if you would like to access one of the discounts we offer, proof of eligibility may be needed. If you look under 18, you might need to show ID.

No, any expectations are your own. Communicate your limits and desires with whoever you meet; most guys are happy to just get their rocks off whichever way. A lot of guys like some things but not others so you only do the things you want to do. Sex probably won’t happen with every visit as we cannot guarantee you will meet someone you like. If you are reasonably flexible you’ll have a very good chance every time.

IF it happens, saying “hi” is a good start. After that just forget it and get on with having a good time – they will. Most guys who come to Menfriends are quite happy to keep their being there private and respect that everyone else likes it that way too. Chances are good that he wont want you saying anything either.