No, definitely not.  MF is for guys into guys – there’s a big difference.

It’s full of guys just like you actually, like the guy down the street and that hot guy in the team you played last week.

A good question. At Menfriends you pay for the use of the venue, nothing else.  Any person asking or offering payment to another for sex will be asked to leave.

It’s clean, it’s horny, it’s safe, it’s warm, it’s open all hours, it has  useful free stuff, friendly staff who wont ask awkward questions and is much cheaper than a motel.  You will always ‘have a place’ at MF – for hook-ups or rentals.

When you’re horny and can afford it.  A visit to a place like MF is always ‘take it as you find it’ in both numbers and types of guy.  Some visits you will be spectacularly lucky and it all works for you.  Other times it’ll take a little longer.  We are not a Drive Thru!  If you want a guarantee, hire a rent-boy.  Email/Messenger enquiries asking about client numbers and client age’s will be ignored – sorry!

Yes, its as good as any other place to find a partner.  We have many couples in our present and past client list.  A guy who is open to a little more than sex will usually give you clues so listen carefully if you are too.  A lot of guys only want sex; that’s very normal.

You were told wrong, way wrong.  There’s no shortage of people in Christchurch who will slag us off but they usually spend their nights alone in front of a keyboard emptying the chat-room.  You wont.  Relentlessly bashing the local sauna is a small-town small-mind thing. We suggest you check it out for yourself before you judge us.

No, we don’t.  Menfriends suits guys who are comfortable with themselves, guys who like a little privacy and fun, who like getting out and having the chance to meet other guys in a safe secure and very sexual space.

No, you can’t.  Any person asking for or offering payment for sex will be asked to leave.  BUT..  if you bring someone with you who is paying you for sex you and he are welcome.   We will always be discreet and treat you both with the same respect that everyone else receives. If you have yourself a rent boy but no place – the same applies. No awkward questions asked – we only need a first name.

That’s because most of our clients don’t park right in front of our building.  They should because as its under a security camera it’s a lot safer. Most of our clients park in the surrounding streets and walk the last 100m.

Yes! As the busiest sex on site venue in NZ you can safely say it does. When it gets busy nobody knows, including us, but Special Sessions are always popular.

If you only want to meet 18 -23 yr olds Menfriends probably will feel like its full of old guys – to you. Menfriends is a venue for adults.  We get ALL ages over 18 at different times and we never know in advance who is going to be on site at any particular time.  As a hospitality venue our patterns are similar to any other hospitality venue.  Email/Messenger enquiries about client numbers client ages and best time to come will be ignored – sorry! 

Yes definitely, quite a few couples come to Menfriends – mostly those who have a very clear understanding of ‘the rules’ of their relationship.  The majority of guys come alone or with friends.

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